THIS IS TEST....
please understand what you're getting into lol
Also, we consider any abuse of women in Discord as a violation of rule #1, I've seen staff get very upset and go out of their way to enforce Rule #1 to protect female members.
Look, we're all adults but some people need reminder on how to be an adult. Start to do this by placing BOUNDARIES when you are in Discord. This helps a LOT in shaping the behavior in a particular channel. COMMUNICATION is key. The responsibility is on each of us to be reasonable and communicate hard boundaries.
For example, both my wife and 9 year old son have interacted with TEST members in person and on Discord. Their experiences have been good and they both like TEST squadron. However, I do speak up if I hear any inappropriate boundaries being violated if I'm present. My wife probably would not because she avoids confrontation with people that are not family members. That's her personality and I try to always encourage her to step up for herself with randos and that's a life skill she's working on. Got her tons of audio books to help with that. Progress is being made. My son is like me so I don't have to worry about him not speaking up for himself. So, sharing this personal information because it's completely relevant.
TEST can and is at times family friendly, but it's important to place boundaries on interactions and take proactive steps depending on situation, for example if someone is drunk in chat at noon, I'm not going to leave my son in chat. Period. As I wrote before, the Onus is on each of us.
P.S. this thread got derailed in proper TESTie fashion.
Has anyone completed HD tiers?
I'm on T4 struggling to get to T5