Ok, I'm officially out of whiskey, and I get really cranky when I don't drink enough. So, here's me necroin' a topic from this very thread, for the sake of startin' a bar brawl.
Obviously, this post addresses all the conversation around named subject.
Now, I'll tell'ya this much: the only dick that ever made me willingly submit to its will, was my own, and that's only 'cause it has a direct line to my brain, which of course makes for a very special relationship between us.
You start talkin' to a target before makin' a muscle statement - only means you forgot to bring your balls on the job. Bottom line: if you've chosen to be a dick, it's mandatory to grow a pair, or else things are definitely goin' down like this:
View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1crhwQPKr7w
Now, if anyone pegs this post as bein' some kind of constructive criticism, I can assure you it was not my intention.
Shit did I miss the brawl or am I just in time... Let me clarify a little about this post, It's not personal. I made this statement assuming that we would be pirating in lawless space. Now that I know that won't always be the case, my point doesn't always apply and shouldn't be used as such a broad statement. What I said, I assumed the muscle statement was already made incapacitating them so they were forced to listen to your demands. That is the only way my scenario works, they had to be softened up and crippled a bit. If someone doesn't want to give up there goods without a fight, so be it, the hard way is what i'm playing this game for.
The game would become dull if no one put up a fight. Takes the fun out of it. Players talk about Griefing and I agree, I don't wan't to play a game where every other player is insulting me. But you won't hear me complaining about other players smoking my crew and ship because I didn't comply with there demand. If you fly in space with an expensive ship or valuable cargo, you need security, no matter where you are. Battlefield banter is good, a couple of jabs is cool, but posting defamatory videos of players and stalking like I have seen in Eve can hurt our community. Tact is very important. Fine line between teasing and harassment.
Maybe we should define Griefing...
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Griefer
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=griefer
All of these definitions make sense to me. That said every time I decide to blow up a players ship without asking for there loot, does that make me a Griefer? In a variety of games I see a lot of players who don't like loosing accuse the winner to be Griefers every time they lose. If I'm sitting in the same system all day and I kill a player twice because they made the same mistake twice, does not make me a griefer. If there is a ton of people in this group afraid of making enemies, you are in the wrong group. People will always scream griefer when you make them turn there auto pilot off, it is online gaming.
The only thing you can do is extend an encouraging message like. It sucks to lose your ship and cargo, If you want to learn how to be a Pirate, here is links to our forums and Test is always welcoming new members. Tired of getting your ass handed to you, feel like being the one making the demands, Join test... I like to encourage my kills to get on VOIP, makes introduction easy and friendly, you make some of the best friends from players you have blown up.
I have also encountered players who pretended to be anti pirate but really were just Griefing me by constantly harassing me, it goes both ways. I have also made good friends from adversaries. Half of my Corp in Eve was from players who had their ships and likely pods destroyed by us.
I like the Goons' definition of griefing - "We don't want to ruin the game, we just want to ruin your game."
There will be players who believe they are entitled to the higher profits from hauling freight through unpoliced space without hiring escorts for protection - i.e. all of the rewards with none of the risks.
They will whine and call us griefers, we will laugh and call them victims of their own unrealistic expectations.
Here is a scenario for people to chew on. Test is at war with another org. It has been asked of the less lawful players of test to sabotage logistics and target players of this corp in secured space. Am I a griefer if I intentionally blow up a cargo ship knowing well that I wont be getting any salvage? If I was a player flying that cargo ship I would be pissed having lost my ship and cargo especially if I was in space that was considered safe.
Even when players are claiming to be Privateering, It is still a ploy to justify piracy. The Spanish inquisition justified torture and all kinds of terrible stuff under Christianity, and called it proselytism, It is still torture.....
My long winded point is that we need to accept that people will misconstrue our intentions and always claim that were griefers. So lets encourage people to join us rather than fight us and lets not pretend that we are anything else but Pirates, Not Privateers.