It was an AC to become one of those often hated colleagues which are announced to boss other people around :D
Well, it appears that I'm not boss-like enough to boss people around: too sensitive, too empathetic, too instinctive; lack of bossing-knowhow, lack of toughness, lack of innovation (ftw?!). But, nevertheless, extremely ambitious. At least something. Grrrr.....
I told them yesterday that it always is my goal to be part of the team and that the leader can only be as good as the team; and kind of such content (besides that I am best on my own when I have a clear defined goal; but nevertheless I generally believe that a perfect team is unbeatable against a one-man-show). I believe in that and I'm totally off this philosophy that one big alpha-like boss can lead to a success. A team perhaps needs to be moderated now and then; but foremost, the team leader has one big challenge: to cover the teams' back for that they commonly can reach their goal(s).
They didn't like it; told me that I would hand over responsibility and that I am lack of innovative perspectives. Thats bullshit! Yes, there are people which are visionary, brilliant. But how many of them are there in this world? And where? I am not such one. But I am convinced that a good team can develop such innovative ideas. Why are there expectations that a good leader has to be innovative and tough and acts by the books? Well, if these are the expectations - I'm becoming a vague idea why the big companies are everything but not innovative...
I agree with the other lads. It does sound like corporate bullshit. You get farther with empathy then with an iron fist. I'm sorry to hear that Sam. They're idiots of they don't value you like we do.It was an AC to become one of those often hated colleagues which are announced to boss other people around :D
Well, it appears that I'm not boss-like enough to boss people around: too sensitive, too empathetic, too instinctive; lack of bossing-knowhow, lack of toughness, lack of innovation (ftw?!). But, nevertheless, extremely ambitious. At least something. Grrrr.....
Soon (tm).Hopefully, you are getting back here, being online and shitposting around more often...?
Have some fun, party (not too much, day-after syndrome is very exhausting), BBQ, finally the weather is good, just in time!!!! My first day of holidays was.... SUN, keep it up another 3 weeks.Has anyone a good receipt against being tired as hell? I definitely have to do more sports; have been a little lazy the last weeks, where I was focussed too much onto that AC.
You didn't failed, you just had the guts and showed them that you are rather honest then lie and tell them what they want to hear. That is a very damn fine quality!!!*sigh* I failed :(
Have some fun, party (not too much, day-after syndrome is very exhausting), BBQ, finally the weather is good, just in time!!!! My first day of holidays was.... SUN, keep it up another 3 weeks.
You didn't failed, you just had the guts and showed them that you are rather honest then lie and tell them what they want to hear. That is a very damn fine quality!!!