Well, looking at all the criticism, I agree that they handled the last-gen consoles poorly. This should have been a PC-only release, and a console release in january or so, by the time they fixed it up enough to be playable...
That said, I'd like to point out that GTA5 came out on the 360 first! You could, theoretically, play it on a first-gen 360-fat. It did run, I tried it, it was awful, similar 15-20fps max at the best of times, constant glitches, crashes... Supposedly the exact same system, the 360 Slim version, ran it at considerably higher FPS, I had one of those and played through it without much issues. This is the case with CP2077 as well, the base consoles don't seem to work, while the upgraded ones run it at a roughly playable level. So yeah it sux if you got a bog standard old PS4 or XBone. You could ofc just get a refund, but that wouldn't create enough drama now would it?
As usual, it's all about the narrative. If you look at youtubers, there is a pretty decent base of voices that while criticizes the issue, also points out that CDPR is offering refunds, out of their own pockets. Whether this will work or how is another question, but the point is that they are trying to fix the issue, one way or another, and not just attack their consumers like EA and others.
But if you read top of the line "news outlets" like TOMs Hardware and PCGamer and such utter trash, they outright lie about the issue by not mentioning even once that CDPR said to contact them for refunds, not even providing a link to the apology letter with the email addressee you should contact for the refunds, and so on.
They just point fingers at the "evil" *ist/*phobe Polish studio, cos it gets em clicks... It's disgusting, as always.
About missing stuff from the game: well, I haven't noticed any of that, and I'M 30 hours in. I'm playing a reflex/tech/body build (cos I wanna do a "caster" later on my second playthrough) and I haven't noticed the lack of cybernetics, cos I don't use any. I'm also running the default male V model to experience the game as it was advertised. I'll go nuts on my second time around with some crazy looking psycho girl, hopefully we will have more customization by then, both on the junk area and the cyber limbs and such.
I'm totally immersed tbh. I don't miss the "radiant Ai", or don't mind the really dumb police that much. The cars moving aside while driving fast so you can pass between them is a bit... well, it could have been more subtle, it looks silly sometimes :D But it helps. Driving imo is the worst part of the game so far. The cars look really cool, I wanna catch em all, but the driving itself needs tuning.
The police is sooo derpy with the way they just spawn in behind you, no matter what or wherever you are, that it's best if they don't start chasing you. Less annoyance this way.
I did a bunch of side gigs, and haven't really encountered any noticeable issues there either.
It's also a question of mindset, how you approach it. This is not GTA, it's more like Mafia 1, where the city and pedestrians are a backdrop to the game, not the game itself, as the game is in the characters and story.
I'm sure all the things you guys and others listed as missing and not what was promised is true, but as I only watched the last couple of Night City Wires and haven't followed the game before that, I got what I expected to get. It's not a No Mans Sky situation where they kept showing the same fake video even 5 minutes before launch... except for the console issues ofc.
edited to say, that I'm looking forward to all the free and payed dlc. If it's on the level of the witcher3, it's gonna be awesome!