Everyone,
I apologize for being a jerk, especially to my last reply
@Vavrik. Sometimes, I forget things that are obvious to me are not obvious to everyone else (context in my mind cannot be properly conveyed through simple discussions without going into too much detail). This is a serious discussion, and no matter what I think (important or not), it is important to you. My intentions are not bad, I was just making light of a sensitive subject. Not sure I meant to troll, but that is how it came out. I'll try to do better, but I am not perfect, and I can be the an asshole - at least interpreted that way.